Love and Logic Classroom
Rules in my classroom are few. I believe that as all children are different, and all actions and reactions very personal in nature, effective discipline involves a few overriding beliefs rather than a long list of specific rules. Situations are dealt with as they arise with the focus on enabling the child to grow and learn from his or her actions.
Guidelines for Student Behavior
1. You may engage in any behavior which does not create a problem for you or anyone else.
2. If you find yourself with a problem, you may solve it by any means which does not cause a problem for anyone else.
3. You may engage in any behavior that does not jeopardize the safety or learning of yourself or others. Unkind words and actions will not be tolerated.
In ensuring that the above guidelines are adhered to, I will operate with the following principles as my guide:
1. I will react without anger or haste to problem situations.
2. I will provide consequences that are not disciplinary but that allow the child to experience the results of a poor choice, enabling him or her to make better choices in the future.
3. I will proceed in all situations with the best interest of the child who foremost in my mind academic, social, and emotional well being will be fostered.
4. I will guide my students toward personal responsibility and the decision making skills they will need to function in the real world.
5. I will arrange consequences for problem situations in such a way that the child will not be humiliated or demeaned.
6. Equal is not always fair. Consequences will be designed to fit the problem of individual students, and they may be different even when problems appear to be the same.7. I will make every effort to ensure that, in each situation, the students involved understand why they are involved in consequences.8. If I at any time act or react in a way that a child truly feels is unjust, that student need only say to me, “I’m not sure that’s fair.” I will arrange for a private conference during which the student can express to me why he or she feels my actions were not fair. This may or may not change my course of action. I am always open to calm, rational discussion of any matter.